Jason, you're a


You've earned this title because you appear to know that in this world, you need to look out for number one. As a result, you're more prepared than most people are to do whatever is necessary to take care of yourself. In fact, you likely expend significant effort to see that your needs and best interests are met, so long as the actions are within your ethical boundaries. You probably expect that others would do as much, so why shouldn't you?
People like you typically feel strongly about following through on your promises. This is great news for the friends or family members who may seek out your help. They likely already know that when you say you will do something, they can generally rely on your word. Others also likely appreciate that you are willing to be responsible for your own actions and welfare. It's a fine quality to know how to accept either credit or blame when it is due. This kind of self-reliance has likely served you well.
Who You're Compatible With
Besides people of your own type, the two types that are the best matches for you are the Forgiving Humanitarian and Loyal Rebel.
Forgiving Humanitarian:
Forgiving Humanitarians have earned this title because they appear to be highly forgiving of themselves and others. Perhaps this tendency comes from an understanding that everyone makes mistakes from time to time or that making errors is a natural part of life. They may also feel that people usually have good reasons for the things that they do, so who are they to judge? Forgiving Humanitarians' nonjudgmental nature and willingness to see the gray areas that affect people's behaviors can make others feel comfortable around them. Those close to them likely appreciate that this type of person is willing to see beyond others' mistakes. However, this group's lenience may not make them a favorite of types who think there is never a good reason to bend or break the law.
Authority figures and big business may not hold Forgiving Humanitarians' highest respect. This type prefers to route for the little guy. In fact, if a Forgiving Humanitarian could get away with something at the expense of big business or the authorities, they probably would. Although this rebellious attitude may be harmless, people of this type should be careful not to push their luck. It can be empowering to stand up for their rights and others' in the face of what they see as unfair laws or bureaucracy, but it can also get them in hot water if they're not careful.
Loyal Rebel:
Loyal Rebels have earned this title because it appears that their number one priority is honoring the relationships they have with other people. Whether this comes in the form of "protecting their own" even when someone has done wrong or telling the truth to friends in good times and bad, these people can be counted on to be there for the people in their lives. So if a friend or family member wants to hear some straight talk about a problem they're facing rather than a sugarcoated fabrication, they come to the right place with this group. Chances are, this type doesn't see the benefit in telling people only what they want to hear.
It's likely that those who don't know a Loyal Rebel well don't get the benefit of much special treatment. In fact, when it comes to dealing with authority figures, a person like this may even consider himself to be a bit of a rebel, hence the name. People in this group can sometimes question laws that keep them from something they feel is rightfully theirs. Perhaps they feel they've earned it. This type needs to remember that while it can feel good to get what they want, it can sometimes feel good to follow the rules, too.
Value #1: Don't take what doesn't belong to you.
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![]() | ![]() | There are many reasons a person might take what doesn't belong to them. The most common one is that someone believes that whatever they find or take is rightfully theirs. For instance, some people have a sense of entitlement that can make them feel as though life owes them something. In this way, they can look at the unlikely things that come into their possession as a kind of earned payment. Also, there are people who believe that companies in general are out to rob from the average citizen. Therefore, they feel that whenever one can steal something back from big business, it's okay. Finally, there are people who know that they shouldn't take what doesn't belong to them, but they go against their values and do it anyway. All the same, most people have respect for others' belongings, regardless of how much they might wish that they had more money or possessions. You scored relatively low on this value dimension. Your results suggest that you're likely one of those people who may feel entitled to keep something that does not technically belong to you. The most likely underlying reason for this trait is that at some point in life you were cheated in some way. Either you were denied something you felt was yours, or you had to go without something you felt you earned. If so, you may have learned early on that one way to get what you need is to take it whenever you can. However, if you're someone who has usually had what you needed in life, you may feel less of an urge to keep things that aren't yours than some others do. Although the drive to want things is legitimate, the way it may be manifesting itself in your life could be compromising your values somewhat. The final word is yours to decide whether this is the case. |
Value #2: Own up to your mistakes.
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![]() | ![]() | So what does this mean about you? Your relatively high score means that relative to others you're generally more likely to confess your wrongdoings than other people are. Most likely this is because when you've made a mistake in the past, you've been treated with kindness. If you found out early on that it was okay to mess up — the world won't end just because you did something wrong — you learned an important lesson. Although you may also have received heavy punishments at times, you appear to have risen above any ill effect from them. By focusing on your belief in fairness rather than your fear of punishment, you can act with a high level of self-respect and integrity. Because not everyone possesses this trait, it can make you a role model for those around you, whether you recognize it or not. |
Value #3: Give to others before giving to yourself.
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![]() | ![]() | Value #3 hits on two very important issues: compassion for others and the value you attribute to your own needs. In relation to others, your score is high, which indicates that you are ordinarily very compassionate and likely have trouble witnessing another person's pain without jumping to their aid. In fact, your empathy may run so deep that there are times when you overlook your own needs for the sake of helping others. While in general this inclination is commendable, try to make sure that you're taking care of yourself at least as much as you're willing to take care of others. This way of thinking might be challenging to you for a number of reasons. For example, if while growing up you experienced situations that taught you if you didn't take care of something, no one else would, you may have developed an inflated sense of responsibility. Also, your early interactions with others may have caused you to internalize the idea that your needs aren't as important as those of the people around you are. If this is the case, it's probably very hard for you to think about putting yourself first. But realize that no matter what your prior experiences tell you, you deserve to have your needs met as much as anyone else. Know that you can act in ways that protect your own sense of worth and still be a great support to those in need. |
Value #4: Do what you can to protect the environment.
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![]() | ![]() | Respect for the earth indicates a love of life in general. However, being able to appreciate nature and everything that comes from it can be difficult in times when natural resources are primarily seen as a means to an end. We rely on aspects of nature to heat our homes, run our cars, and keep the economy moving — sometimes at the expense of plants, animals, land, or other aspects of the environment. People who are high in Value #4 tend to see nature's intrinsic value and long-term importance and are willing to make personal sacrifices to help protect it. You scored low in this value, which indicates that for the most part, you're less willing to go out of your way to help the environment than many other people are. Perhaps on some level, you don't feel connected to nature and therefore don't feel compelled to do things that support it. Or you may simply feel that any small environmental effort you would make could not possibly result in a measurable difference. However, some would argue that every effort counts, and that when put alongside the steps that others take, each one of us makes a difference. Whether or not you feel this view is correct, you might be surprised to find that by doing more to respect and aid the environment, you come to have a deeper appreciation of the world around you. |
Value #5: Respect legal authority.
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![]() | ![]() | People like you who are relatively low in this value typically place a higher value on the trust you've built with others than you do on making people accountable for their legal misdeeds. This trend may suggest that you've had the good fortune to be surrounded by trustworthy people during your life, ones you feel are typically above reproach. If so, you likely feel that those individuals can be counted on to monitor their own behavior without intervention from either you or the authorities. Yet it may also be the case that you've experienced or witnessed negative situations that have caused you to distrust the police or legal system. If you or a person you care about has been hurt or violated by someone in a position of power, it's not surprising that you're generally on the side of individuals rather than "the system." Try to remember, though, that not all laws are bad, nor are the people who enforce them. In fact, if you think back there are probably times in your life when you've benefited from their existence. |
Value #6: Protect the vulnerable.
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![]() | ![]() | Remember the old adage, "Curiosity killed the cat?" It's an expression about the dangers of violating others' privacy. You seem to have already taken to heart the potential harm that can come from violating someone's trust in you. The ability to respect other people's privacy is usually inspired by a strong ability to empathize with others and a willingness to keep up appropriate boundaries. Although there are probably times when you feel like crossing the line in order to get a peek of something you shouldn't be seeing, chances are you don't actually do it. This is true because you appear to have a greater sensitivity than many other people do, and you aren't willing to compromise others' well-being for the sake of a thrill or to satisfy your curiosity. |
Value #7: Honor your commitments.
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![]() | ![]() | It appears that while you may be one who thinks it's a good idea to tell the truth and keep your word, you're not always one to do it. You may have learned that telling a lie can sometimes get you further than telling the truth or that lying is okay as long as no one gets hurt. You may also feel that unless a commitment is put down on paper and signed by a lawyer, then it doesn't really need to be honored. Usually beliefs like these are a product of experience. If not following through on something has benefited you in the past — or at least not penalized you — why not do it again? Also, if it was commonplace for people in your family to say one thing and do another, you might have learned that that it was okay not to communicate your true intentions. When you're dealing with people who think like you do, these tendencies may not be a problem. However, at work or in relationships with people high in this value, it can become much more important for you to follow through and tell the truth. Failing to do so could lose you their trust as well as potentially interesting opportunities. |
Value #8: Be forgiving.
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![]() | ![]() | You seem to understand that all people have faults and that expecting those around you to be perfect would only make life difficult for everyone involved. You're usually willing to give people latitude when they need it, including yourself. This kind of understanding speaks to a deep respect of human nature, as well as an ability to empathize. It takes a mature person to recognize the complexity of people and situations, knowing that often issues are not black and white. By being willing to contemplate situations to better understand why individuals do what they do, you set yourself up for building strong people-sense and trusting relationships. Also, by being willing to forgive, you free your mind and body for more positive experiences and emotions. |
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